The Barnet Society mourns the passing of its remarkable President

Aubrey Rose CBE, proud President of the Barnet Society, died on 26th June 2026 aged 99. He was a great supporter of the Society, always ready with encouragement and advice. He helped secure The Bull as a community resource, and his experience of town planning was a help to the Society’s planning and environmental work. Jenny Remfry, our Vice President, writes the following appreciation:

The Barnet Society committee sometimes met at Aubrey’s house, Monken Holt on Hadley Green. In 1995, as part of the celebrations of the Barnet Society’s 50^th anniversary, we held a garden party there.

He was elected President in 2005, succeeding Sir Sydney Chapman MP, who had been unseated by Theresa Villiers in the 2005 General Election, and Gwyneth Cowing, the Society’s Co-founder and first President. 

Aubrey was modest in appearance and gentle in manner, but jovial and very sociable. He was a wise man to whom one could take one’s problems. He would listen intently, think deeply, then answer in a kindly way.     

Aubrey was born in 1926. His parents had come as immigrants from Poland to London’s East End in the early 20^th century, and their experience gave Aubrey a sympathy for immigrants, particularly those from Commonwealth countries. In the 1940s, after a couple of years in the army, Aubrey became a lawyer the hard way, starting as an articled clerk while studying for the exams to become a solicitor. In 1951, at the age of 25, he set up his own practice – half a room furnished with a desk, one chair and a filing cabinet – in Fleet Street.

His first client was a young woman and her aunt who were opening a dress shop. The young woman was Sheila, whom he married in 1954 and with whom he lived happily until her death in 2007. He built up his business, taking on assistants and partners and was the Senior Partner from 1971 to 1995.

Aubrey tells the story of his life as a solicitor with great humour in his book ‘Brief Encounters of a Legal Kind’ published in 1997. Many of his early clients came from Poland, Ireland and the Caribbean. But that was just the start of a remarkable career.

In the 1950s, one of his clients was a confidence trickster – the father of John le Carré. In the 1960s, he advised on the development of Carnaby Street in the heart of ‘Swinging London’.

In the 1970s he was the legal advisor to the Hosein brothers accused of kidnapping Mrs Muriel McKay.

In the 1980s he advised the enquiry into the Brixton riots that led to the Scarman Report.

In the 1990s he was involved in the legal conundrum of whether the London Electricity Board had the right to build an electricity substation under Leicester Square. (In the end, they did.)  Also in the 1990s, Aubrey was involved in the setting up of the National Lottery.

It was in the 1970s that Aubrey moved with his family to Monken Holt. My first contact with him was in 1979.  His elder son, David, had died of cancer, leaving a large collection of interesting abstract paintings. Aubrey was desolated and determined that his son would not be forgotten. He came to the Old Bull and arranged with Pam Edwards to use the gallery to exhibit David’s works. After that, Aubrey became a great supporter of the Old Bull and chaired a committee to raise money for the proposed theatre that was opened in 1988.

Although a practising Jew in the Liberal tradition and serving on the Board of Deputies of British Jews for over 50 years, Aubrey was ecumenical in his outlook. He often came to the Parish Church on Christmas Day, and was a member of the Council of Christians and Jews. He was the first Jewish Commissioner on the Commission for Racial Equality and its Deputy Chairman in 1995. He was the only Jewish trustee of Barnet’s Hyde Trust.

He also supported Cherry Lodge, a Nurses’ Association, the Jewish Association of Spiritual Healers, and was a Freeman of the City of London. In 1997 he was honoured with the CBE for his work in the community.

Aubrey published several books and was proud to be a member of the Society of Authors, and to receive an honorary doctorate from London Metropolitan University in 2000. The book he wrote in 1997 about his son David – ‘Journey into Immortality’ was well received. This was followed by an autobiography – ‘Rainbow Never Ends’ in 2006 – and ‘Letters to my Wife’ as a tribute to Sheila. More recently, he has written books for children, such as ‘Sea Olympics’ published in 2012.  

Aubrey loved giving talks, many of them on life in the old East End. More recently, he made contributions to the Barnet U3A. He is fondly remembered by the members he introduced to the fundamentals of Bridge, and intrigued others by giving talks on faith healing and the spirit world. 

Aubrey’s funeral was held on 30^th June at the Western Cemetery, Bulls Cross, attended by his family, colleagues and many friends. In her eulogy, Aubrey’s daughter Esther spoke of his gentleness. During his lifetime he gave help, advice and encouragement to hundreds of people, many of whom became lifelong friends. He was, she said, extremely perceptive and observant, with views on all sorts of things, but he expressed them with grace, kindness and restraint. He always saw the best.   

Barnet has lost a remarkable man.